“I Don’t Have a Green Thumb”: The Truth About Starting a Garden (and Why You Can)

So many of my friends say to me,
“I’d love to grow something, but I just don’t have a green thumb.”
And I get it — really, I do. It can feel intimidating, especially if you’ve had a plant (or a few) not make it.

But here’s the thing: you don’t need a green thumb.
You just need to start small, stay curious, and give yourself a little grace.
No one’s born knowing how to garden. It’s something you grow into — just like your garden.

🌱 Start Where You Are

You don’t need a big yard or fancy tools. A few pots, a patch of sun, and a couple of plants you love is more than enough. Some of the best gardens I’ve seen are on patios, windowsills, and tiny back porches.

🌼 5 Beginner Tips I Share With All My Friends

1. Start small — really small

One pot of basil. A planter of lettuce. Just one thing you’ll enjoy watching grow. You can always add more later.

Potted herbs

2. Pick plants that are easy and forgiving

Try basil, mint, thyme, lettuce, cherry tomatoes, or marigolds. They’re happy plants that don’t need a lot of fuss and will build your confidence fast.

3. Pay attention to light

Most edible plants need 6+ hours of sunlight a day. Just take note of where the sun lands in your space — your plants will thank you.

One of the best and easiest websites for checking your garden's sunlight exposure is:

☀️ suncalc.org

Why it’s great:

  • Free & interactive: Enter your address and it shows the sun’s path over your garden.

  • Helps you see how much direct sunlight different areas get throughout the day and across seasons.

  • You can use it to plan where to place your raised beds, containers, or sun-loving plants.

Bonus Tools You Might Also Like:

  1. Google Earth / Google Maps Satellite View
    → Zoom in on your garden to spot existing shade from trees, buildings, or fences.

  2. SunSeeker App (iOS/Android)
    → Use your phone’s camera to track the sun’s path right in your yard—great if you want a mobile, real-time tool.

  3. Plant Light Meter Apps
    → Apps like Photone (iOS) or Lux Light Meter give you a quick indoor/outdoor light reading if you're growing in containers or windows.

Suncalc

4. Use good soil

If you’re planting in containers or raised beds, don’t skimp on soil. Healthy soil makes all the difference. I promise.

When I’m starting a new garden bed or potting up a container, I always reach for a mix of organic topsoil and organic compost — and here’s why:

It creates rich, living soil

Organic topsoil gives your plants structure and stability, while compost adds life. Together, they make a balanced mix full of nutrients, beneficial microbes, and moisture-holding power.

It supports healthy roots

Compost improves drainage and moisture retention — two things roots love. The mix creates just the right texture for roots to spread and grow strong.

It feeds plants naturally

No synthetic fertilizers needed — compost is full of slow-release nutrients that support your plants from seed to harvest.

It’s better for the earth

Organic soil & compost

By avoiding chemicals and using organic matter, you’re not just feeding your garden — you’re feeding the soil, reducing runoff, and protecting pollinators.

5. Don’t overthink it

Check in with your plants every couple of days. Water when the soil feels dry. Watch. Learn. Adjust. That’s gardening.

🌿 You’re Already a Gardener

If you’ve ever loved a houseplant, picked a tomato, admired a flower, or dreamed of growing your own herbs — you’re already halfway there. You’re paying attention. You care. That’s the heart of it.

You don’t need a green thumb.
You just need a little encouragement and the right place to start.

Let’s Grow Something Together

If you’re ready to try — even just one little pot on your windowsill — I’m cheering you on. You’ve got this. And I’m here to help you grow every step of the way.

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